My name is Jenny Gordon. I
had just turned 30 and was going through the biggest failure of my life.
I
had excellent grades in school. A good
job. Listened to my parents. Bragged my marriage would last forever
because I was a child of divorce and had learned what not to do. And there I was anyway. DIVORCE. The life I planned was over. The expectations my ex and I had for each
other just didn't pan out.
And
then there was our house. My beautiful
three story townhouse purchased just two years before, at the height of the
real estate boom. Prices had fallen and
the market was tanking. It would cost me
money to keep it or to get rid of it. My
ex washed his hands of it. And yet I
wanted to keep it so badly. It was my
happy, comforting place. But on only one
income, I needed another way to make more money. I need a second job.
I
picked up my broken self and set out to get a second income. Waitressing was easy money, wasn't it? I had never done it before but I could
learn. I applied at several restaurants
and got hired. There wasn't a specific
training program, it was trial by fire.
After the first night working I arrived home to my happy townhouse in
tears. My body ached from many hours on
my feet. I had spilled a tray of
food. And did the customer want Bud
Light or Coors Light? My mind wasn't
able to retain such small details. I
called up and quit. I had failed again.
As
I took comfort again in my home, I looked around and it realized how clean it
was. I could clean houses! I told friends and co-workers and the next
thing I knew I had a roster of six housecleaning clients. I did a good job but it was hard physical
work. After two months all the bending
and twisting had taken a toll on my back.
I went to the doctor and chiropractor.
The diagnosis - I would eventually get better but I had to stop cleaning
houses. I had failed once again.
"Jenny, you're a winner. You're not used to failing. You will succeed again because you're a winner."
How
many more blows would I be dealt? At
that point I had something to prove. My
father, one of my biggest supporters, said "Jenny, you're a winner. You're not used to failing. You will succeed again because you're a
winner." Then fate happened. My best friend from college had a booming
side business of petsitting. She had too
many clients and gave two to me. My two
clients turned into four, then six, then ten.
I was the one turning down clients as my business started to boom. The extra money paid my bills and I got much
joy from watching pets. I couldn't
possibly pick a favorite ...
The owners were equally delightful. The older couple who went to India for three weeks and said they wouldn't have gone on the trip of a lifetime if I hadn't watched their dogs. The small business owner who went to Europe and asked me to open her mail, sign her checks, and make a $10,000 deposit in her account so her tax payment wouldn't bounce. One lady who lived in the country warned me to watch out for "critters" because raccoons often came in the house through the doggy door. I learned so much about people and animals and their love for each other. My business gave me the type of joy my corporate job never could.
- The terrier that adored taking walks
- The six-toed cat that snuggled for hours on my lap
- The indoor/outdoor cat whose buddy cats in the neighborhood would swing by the house for a nighttime prowl
- The four golden retrievers who greeted me at the door with barks of happiness
The owners were equally delightful. The older couple who went to India for three weeks and said they wouldn't have gone on the trip of a lifetime if I hadn't watched their dogs. The small business owner who went to Europe and asked me to open her mail, sign her checks, and make a $10,000 deposit in her account so her tax payment wouldn't bounce. One lady who lived in the country warned me to watch out for "critters" because raccoons often came in the house through the doggy door. I learned so much about people and animals and their love for each other. My business gave me the type of joy my corporate job never could.
Today I still
petsit, though not as frequently. I met
the love of my life and moved twenty minutes up the road to live with him. And my happy townhouse? I kept it as a rental property which makes income
every month. A recently divorced Mom and
her two kids are starting over there. I
hope my house brings them the same happiness it brought me.
You want to know something hilarious? Over the holidays I did some pet sitting. I had the honor of taking care, of two cats and 15 chickens!! Let's just say, it was quite the experience.
ReplyDeleteNice story!! And you tell it in a great way! I like that it's a happy ending :)
ReplyDeleteHi Jenny, I loved your story and the way you wrote it. Your 'voice' was very fluid and easy to follow. I also have a background in petsitting! :) - Molly
ReplyDeleteWow, what an incredible story. I admire the way you opened up about some difficult things that happened in your life. And I really loved (not the situation) the fact that your house is now occupied by a similar story. I hope it brings them blessings as well. - Jordan
ReplyDeleteI really like the way you tell your story with grace and honesty. I'm so happy things worked out for you.
ReplyDeleteHello Jenny! I have got to say, your blog post was one of my favorites. You had me hooked at the title. It was intriguing and left me genuinely curious, and the pet-lover in me was hooked. Your capabilities at story telling really shine through. The twists and turns, and your genuine honesty really had me rooting for you. I loved your use of the quote to structurally break up the blog post and act as the starting point for your success. Great read! -Erica
ReplyDeleteI have a house full of fur babies so your story got me right away. you took us through your ups and downs with you and really invited us to know about you by letting us into who you are and a time when you were feeling down. You bring us full circle to a time of triumph and we are excited for you by this point in the story because of your openness into the harder times. Nice job telling your story and relaying a little bit of who you really are. Jen P
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