I love the
power of words.
I still
journal by hand and create many drafts of my business communications with pen
and paper as I am a strong believer that sorting through words on paper has a
power all its own.
When I was a
freshman in high school, my history teacher asked us to read The Red Badge of Courage and write a
book report.
I read the
book (sorta) but used Cliff Notes to help me gain a better understanding of the
themes and metaphors because I was told in the fourth grade that I was hopelessly
inept at reading comprehension.
That
prognostication still lives with me.
Evidence of
the power of words, particularly on the young.
I formulated
my own perspective of The Red Badge of Courage
by reading other people’s interpretations and crafted my book report.
It was
flawless.
A bit too
flawless, however, because my teacher asked me if I’d plagiarized another book
report.
I was
mortified and petrified, earned an 85 (a perfect score of 100 minus 15 points
for using Cliff Notes), and made a life-changing discovery.
I learned
that I had the ability to read and listen to other’s perspectives and
articulate an amalgamation of their thoughts along with my own beautifully.
Although my innate
writing ability has enabled me to craft a career doing something I enjoy, I
long to develop a voice that is clear, crisp, and concise, as well as a keen
understanding of how to use and measure the impact of the Internet and social
media in business, public relations, and marketing when it comes to words.
So I
practice.
On paper.
Beyond my
“day job”, my passion is to share my story of triumph as a domestic abuse
“thrivor” – not just survivor - to encourage, inspire, and empower. I am not
only compelled to support other “thrivors” but to tell those in the legal and
judicial system of the emotional, psychological, and financial vulnerability
women face when we take a stand to end the cycle of domestic violence and
courageously (that word again) create a new and better life. Learning to craft
an impactful message in this endeavor is not only necessary but critical in
order for me to become an effective advocate. I know it is my purpose.
I long to be of service to others,
particularly women, as I think we have a unique struggle to find our voices and
stand in our truth.
I also needed
to model this desire to my amazing daughter – the impetus for me reaching
within to find the courage to create a new and better life.
And ironically,
according to Mark W. Schaefer and Stanford A. Smith, the authors of Born to Blog,
that appears to be what blogging is all about.
Schaefer and
Smith offer a marvelous approach to finding our authentic voice in the world
and the courage to speak it boldly. It mirrors my journey in life and in the boldness
required to become an entrepreneur:
- Be comfortable being vulnerable.
- Speak your truth.
- Try - you don't have to know everything to start.
Much like out case study Katie in Born to Blog, we not only owe it to our readers but to the world to be our full authentic selves out loud.
I am hoping
that my 50 years on this planet will help others arrive at a place of poise and
power much sooner than I did, whether it’s through my writing, my presence, my
participation, or my professional footprint.
So perhaps
you can take a few of the inspirational words I’ve gathered along to power your
own pursuits.
It is our responsibility to fulfill the reason we were born.
The world is waiting on us to fill a place no one else can fill.
It’s not arrogance or demagoguery but our obligation to the Creator.
Somewhere someone is looking for exactly what we have to offer so let’s
get to it.
Courageously.
Allison, you mention advocacy...is blogging going to be your primary medium or do you also plan to join organization's? I enjoyed your read and applaud your courage!!
ReplyDeleteAllison, you mention advocacy...is blogging going to be your primary medium or do you also plan to join organization's? I enjoyed your read and applaud your courage!!
ReplyDeleteWow. Just wow. I think you should know you do write in a clear and concise way - your blog is very easy to read, but your passion for your career and your life jumps off the page (screen?). You write in a powerful way and it is great! I think that you have a lot to offer professionally through blogging. However, I think you could reach a lot of people on a personal level if you blogged about your "thrivor" status (I love that term, by the way!). I think you could really make a difference! - Tessa
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